Plenty of graphics cards that are fanless, The only way to go fanless on the CPU is water cooling
So you basically only want to play movies with your HTPC?
Start choosing some parts and you can get a bit more of an idea from opinions & recommendations based on your choices
SsZERO & I have a great thread going discussing the Pros & cons of the FM1/APU systems, This may be something that would suit you?
http://www.htpcforums.com/index.php?showtopic=4258
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